Love & Sex

So many people break up because of bad sex

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You would think that more is important than that dick when looking for a man of your life, but we all appear to be critical.

Because, as proven, many people shut the door on a new flame when they've had a bad sexual experience. After four bad encounters, we've decided: this is going nowhere. Never ever. Bye-bye. In short, we give the poor soul absolutely no chance. Of course, it takes some getting used to in the beginning, you don't immediately know what the other person likes. About thirty percent of people consider bad sex a reason for a break-up. And they quickly take off if it doesn't, eh, get cozy between the legs.

For 41 percent of men, bad sex means they don't climax. For women, it's different: 36 percent of women find a romp unfulfilling if there's no foreplay. Also, the fact that the man is ready too quickly, is a culprit for all ladies. What we as women also can't appreciate: dirty sheets. Brrrr. After trying to giggle in a filthy bed four times, the fun is definitely over, yes.

It might also say something: whether that click is there. That click you really need at the beginning of the relationship. That chemistry. Because if you're not buzzing with excitement, it's doomed to fail. You might as well become besties. You need to want to kiss someone all the time. Want to see someone naked all day. You also need to want them to touch you. If all that is missing, it's better to cut it off. Preferably after just two sleepovers.

And on the other hand... If he has nice shoes, is handsome, can be funny, and is a nice guy, just remember that there's more to it than sex. And that you can always teach him a lot in the years to come.