25 questions to ask yourself at the end of the year

Just sit down for a moment for the conversation with yourself. I mean: it shouldn't be that difficult, we chat with others all day long. But do you do it with yourself too? Taking stock gives an overview, but also insight. Are you actually happy with the life you lead? What would you like more of, what would you like to change? Sometimes we rush through that train so much that we don't even realize that we are unconsciously - step by step - becoming a better version of ourselves.

This positive questionnaire helps you to pause for the small successes. So grab a pen and paper, sit down comfortably, and get to work. It's also fun if your loved ones fill out the same list so you can share the answers with each other.

1. What is the most fun discovery you made in the past year?
2. What was the biggest surprise?
3. When did you do something for the first time last?
4. What achievement are you most proud of?
5. What difficult challenge did you take on instead of running away from it?
6.What did you spend too much time on in 2020?
7. What do you want to spend more time on in 2021?
8. What are you glad you asked for help with?
9.Which relationship has surprised you the most positively?
10. What was your best decision of the past year?
11.Who should you thank for the role they played in your life last year?
12. In what behavior have you improved?
13.About which quality or skill have you become more confident?
14.Which simple pleasures did you enjoy a lot in the past year?
15. What goal have you worked on, or what goal have you achieved?
16. What have you changed your mind about or had to adjust your opinion on?
17. What did you try that turned out to be unsuccessful, but from which you learned something?
18. How has the way you look at yourself and think about yourself changed?
19. Are you holding on to something you should actually let go of?
20. Are you who you want to be?
21. What prejudice have you become aware of?
22. With which people do you feel extra connected this year? Why exactly with these people?
23. What has changed in what you feel comfortable with or what you love?
24. With which idea do you still want to do something?
25. And ending with a bang: what was your most fun outing/vacation/party? I mean: maybe that was before March or did you experience something special during the corona period that will always stay with you.