How do you give him/her a sexy lap dance?
Do you miss the seduction in the bedroom? A lap dance can make your relationship a bit more exciting. Well, that sounds easier said than done, because not everyone is born with stripper skills. LotteLust gives you 6 tips for a successful lap dance.
1. Make sure to turn your partner on as much as possible
Lure your partner off the couch with the words that you have a surprise that will make him or her very happy. This ensures that ears and eyes are focused on you during the ‘performance’ and that you can go ahead. Additionally, the goal is to excite your partner, but not give everything of yourself away yet.
2. Wear clothing that makes you feel sexy and confident
It may be easier than it seems, but your outfit already determines a large part of the lap dance. Your partner will surely get warm if you wear a sexy outfit instead of your quarantine outfit. Tip: with something that has a zipper or buttons, you can easily ‘play’ and challenge. Need inspiration for what to wear underneath? Check these 9 lingerie sets that will drive your lover wild. Think outside the box, but remember that you need to feel confident in the outfit.
3. Choose the right music
The music immediately sets the mood. There are many music genres that are very sexy, but for a lap dance, nothing beats slow R&B and deep house. Just make sure you find the music danceable. After all, you are the one giving the lap dance. Need inspiration? This is the playlist for a hot evening with your lover.
4. Practice some simple moves
The outfit and music are the foundation, now your moves. At this point, you can hardly go wrong. Your partner is already extremely excited. Rest assured: you don't have to belly dance à la Shakira. Move your hips from side to side as you walk towards them. Slowly lower yourself onto their lap and touch yourself. Sink to your knees, spin in pirouettes, let your hair down, and grind over their lap. Go wild!
Also important: maintain eye contact. It excites your partner when you look at him or her challengingly. Ultimately, being confident is key, because that's how you perform best.
5. Restrain or blindfold your lover
This step makes it even more exciting. Put a blindfold on your partner, take their hands, and let them glide along your body. Another option: tie your lover up. If you combine this with the blindfold, your sweetheart will truly go wild with desire. Eventually, when the other is restrained, you can also remove the blindfold. Move slowly on their lap, but don't let yourself be touched. When you are done with your lap dance, your partner won't be able to wait to reward you.
6. Play with your clothing
Now for the grand finale: a mini strip show! Tease your partner by slowly taking off each piece of clothing. It also looks incredibly seductive. And prevent yourself from awkwardly fiddling. The slower you go, the longer you have to take off your clothing. Tip: keep your heels on. That's mega sexy.
Check these striptease tips if you want to take it a step further.
