How to make missionary unforgettable

Good, boring and lazy. The missionary position has a bad reputation. We think that's a shame, because with the right moves, this horizontal tango can be one to remember. LotteLust gives 8 variation tips.

1. CAT position
Hello pussycat! Do you want a more intense experience as the girl on the bottom? Then go for the CAT position, which stands for Coital Alignment Technique. It resembles missionary, but is actually just a bit different. In this position, you and your lover position yourselves so that your clitoris is stimulated much more. Let’s go.

2. Come first
Always ensure a good warm-up to get aroused for sex. Then you will be wetter, more relaxed, and penetration will hurt less. Do you also want a more intense sexual experience? Reach a climax before he climbs on top of you. Since you have already come, penetration will feel even more sensitive.

Note: it is very personal whether you find this enjoyable or not. Listen closely to your own body.

3. Get your hands dirty
During missionary, you can do much more than just ‘lie there’. As the girl on the bottom, there is plenty to do. Use your hands to caress your partner or passionately scratch his back.

Or don’t use your hands at all, but have them tied up for a kinky vibe. Also check these 15 tips for kinky sex.

4. Don’t forget your clit
Your little, big friend also needs attention. Don’t be shy to massage your clitoris during missionary. Use a finger (or fingers) or a toy for this.

5. Legs in the air
For a more intense feeling, throw your legs in the air during missionary. Over your partner's shoulders, to be precise. The missionary position suddenly transforms into the Viennese oyster, a very intense bed position that might become your new favorite.

8. Dirty talk
‘Hey little mama, let me whisper in your ear…’ Missionary is ideal for whispering some dirty words in each other’s ears. ‘Yes, right there! Oh…! Keep going, keep going! Don’t stop!’