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Seeing stars: with edging your orgasm becomes even more intense

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We come with a heavenly weekend tip: edging, also known as riding the edge. You may have seen this sex technique before. According to some, it is the key to taking your orgasms to a higher level. But what exactly does edging entail and why is it so popular? LotteLust explains it.

To the edge
The name says it all a bit: with edging, you try to bring yourself to the edge of an orgasm, then stop just before the peak. You repeat this as often as you want (and can), like a kind of orgasm marathon. So you are essentially teasing your own orgasm. Just when it starts to feel too intense, you go to the limit, which leads to a super intense climax.

The benefits of edging
Besides the fact that having multiple orgasms is generally good for your health, edging also has other benefits. For example, it is a good way to better understand your body (and that of your partner). If you are more focused on the build-up to your climax, it also becomes easier to feel what really excites you and how your body responds to it.

Edging can also help you gain more control over your orgasms. You literally have the reins in your hands to delay and build up the moment of climax. Practice makes perfect, so after a few rounds, you will feel like a true orgasm queen.

Alone or with your partner?
Experimenting with edging is a good way to become more in touch with your body. Whether you do it alone or with your partner, toys are never an unnecessary luxury. They can even help extra, because with a sex toy, you have more options to stimulate yourself.

If you are going to try it for the first time, it might be best to start alone. Once you know a bit about what works and what doesn't, you can more easily turn it into a joint activity.

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