Spice it up: this is how to make your sex life more kinky

It can never hurt to try something new. If you need a bit more excitement in your sex life, adding a kinky edge is the way to go. Read here how you can make your sex life kinkier with these tips.

Sexy bucket list
Are there things you've always wanted to try? Write them down and make a bucket list. New positions, BDSM, rimming, swinging: you can think of anything. You can of course create this sexy bucket list together or alone. Check the LotteLust bucket list for inspiration.

Spontaneity is key
Admittedly, a planned romp certainly has its advantages, but nothing beats the surprise element of spontaneous sex, especially if this side of you hasn't really been discovered yet. So do you have a moment when normally there wouldn't be any sex? Take the lead, check if your bed partner is in the mood and seize the moment!

Talk dirty to me
At LotteLust, we are definitely not averse to a bit of dirty talk. In fact, it's highly recommended. Try out some things during sex; there's a good chance they'll be received positively and make the encounter even more exciting. Or take it to a new level and see if sexting is for you. Curious how? These are the sexting do's and don'ts.

Upgrade
Check how your stock of sexy lingerie, toys, and props is doing. Could they use a (kinky) upgrade? Think about what accessories you absolutely must have and go on a shopping spree. For a truly exciting upgrade, you might also want to take a look at the section for catsuits, candle wax, and handcuffs.

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