Tips for giving a sexy massage

Giving an intense massage is super sexy foreplay and moreover, it is also the love letter to your partner. Because what is more intimate than giving your full attention by giving a sexy massage?

A good preparation is half the work, so before you dive fully into the massage mood, it's never a bad idea to do a little research. LotteLust gives tips for an optimal experience.

Create the atmosphere
Take your time beforehand to choose (or create) a chill playlist and think about what kind of atmosphere you want. Romantic? Erotic? Just very sexy? Dim the lights and choose a place where you can easily clean up any spilled oil - and where there is enough space for a happy ending.

Use props
Of course, you can just use your hands, but you don't have to. There are plenty of vibrating, skin-friendly toys that are specially made for giving a nice massage. Throw those into the mix: success guaranteed.

Also having a nice massage oil is really a must. It's handy to lay down something like a sheet or a surface that can get dirty. Warm the oil between your hands before you start.

The erogenous zones
During the massage, don't go straight to his or her privates. Instead, build it up slowly until your partner is in a total state of relaxation before you start the real work.

If you've been together for a while, you probably know where the most sensitive spots are. Pay enough attention to those erogenous zones and don't be afraid to do it ‘wrong’. You both already know that you're not a professional, so it doesn't matter if you don't have the right techniques down yet. It's actually just romantic that you're putting in so much effort, they'll thank you for it.

Tip: arrange a couples massage. There's no better way to bond than through shared pleasure.

Looking for more tips for a successful and (un)winding evening? Read the LotteLust article here about giving an erotic massage.