6 Tips to make sex sultry and romantic again
Every relationship knows that familiar point: the point where sex has become a standard script or mainly consists of quickies because you barely have time. Romance is sometimes hard to find. There's nothing wrong with that from time to time, but we completely understand if you also just long for delicious sultry sex and intimacy. To truly make love and show each other how crazy you still are about each other. Does this sound like music to your ears but feels far from your bed? No panic, with these tips from LotteLust the bedroom will be the epitome of a top-notch romantic film set in no time.
Take your time
This is not a quickie, so don't rush and take your time. Think back to the last time you kissed extensively and how nice that was. Can't remember it? Then you definitely know it's time to take it easy. Plan an evening for just the two of you and put away the phones to ensure you won't be disturbed. By the way, did you know that planning sex is a lot more exciting than it sounds?
Make eye contact
Essential for romance and intimacy: make eye contact. Eye contact contributes to a deeper connection. Once you feel more connected to each other, you'll automatically notice that the atmosphere becomes much more romantic. You start to merge more into each other.
Set the mood
The ambiance is everything. You can have it all in your head that you're going for romance tonight, but when you lie on the bed in the full spotlight with a tube of lubricant while some carnival hit plays in the background, that doesn't exactly fall under the category of romantic. Dim that light, light some candles, let some of that nice room spray waft through your bedroom, and choose a subtle playlist. Once you also compliment your love with sweet words, and not necessarily sexy (‘I want you now’) words, you'll see that you naturally get in the mood.
Hold each other's hands
This sounds a bit cheesy, but picture this: you take control and initiate a position on top. You take your love's hand, your fingers intertwine, you guide their hand lover to a nice spot on your body and hold it there. Pretty intimate, right?! Add that eye contact to this and you'll feel the touch more intensely than ever before.
Intimate position
Now that we're talking about a position: we get it, doggy style always works well, but it's not very romantic. What about the lotus position or another romantic position? There's room to kiss, caress, and get lost in each other's eyes. If this is still possible, of course, with all the steam you will fill the room with.
Don't forget the afterplay!
We understand if after sex you prefer to go to the bathroom to pee or give yourself a little freshening up, but don't forget that afterplay is just as important and nice as foreplay. Stay in each other's arms for a while and enjoy being together and the intimacy. Take your time for each other here too. Cuddling is healthy and makes you a little happier for a reason!
