Take control! This is how to dominate your partner in bed

In a relationship, one is often the initiator and the other is a bit more reserved. Is your partner usually the one seducing you and pulling the strings in your sex life? Take the reins and overwhelm him or her. LotteLust.co.uk tells you how to take charge in the bedroom.

1. Be clear

The most important thing about being dominant is: communicate powerfully and clearly. Some people need a very clear approach. Don't ask your lover if he/she might/eventually/please feel like it. Tell exactly that you intend to give him or her a good time. You will see that your lover will automatically sit back and let go of the reins.

2. Girl on top!

The cowgirl position is ideal for exuding that confident ‘girl in control’ attitude. All he has to do is enjoy the view and secretly he doesn't mind at all... Want to get better at this position? Then check out these tips.

3. Change positions when you want to

Are you bored of the position again, though? Then don't wait for him to be ready to switch. Take matters into your own hands. You are the boss tonight. Need inspiration? Check out These dominant positions for ladies in control.

4. Blindfold your partner

Do you have a partner who is not so easily led in bed? Then a blindfold set is indispensable. If he/she can no longer see anything, he/she cannot lead you in bed either. You tell the other person what to do. Perfect right? And it's also extra exciting.

5. Tell your desires

What turns you on? Mischievously whisper that in your lover's ear while you casually watch television or do the dishes if necessary. Bet he/she is eager to take you into the bedroom (or wherever)?

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