The ingredient to make your sex life hotter

In the beginning of your relationship, you still jump each other for a strand of hair that is swept away in a ridiculously sexy way, after a few years (and sometimes after just a few months) the frequency of sex often decreases a bit. But that doesn't have to be the case, experts say, as long as you ensure that this essential ingredient remains present.

Straightforward
’In the evening you are exhausted from the day, in the morning you prefer to stay in bed for a little longer and where did the time go when you ended up halfway up the stairs for a little dirty fun? On vacation, it often suddenly becomes just as steamy as when you first met. A good sign, because it indicates that it hasn't disappeared. But where does the desire go in the meantime and how do you ignite it again?

It's simple. Renewal, that is the secret to a steamy sex life. If you still do it as straightforward as you did in the beginning, then you apparently just need less of it. But if it remains original, then you want more of it. So it's logical that in the renewing environment of your vacation you suddenly feel like it all day long. Between the Mai Tais and swaying palm trees, everything is just a bit more tempting than between the sandwiches and morning newspapers.

Different-than-usual
Even great sex can become boring, sex therapist Nazanin Moali explains to HuffPost. It is also not the solution to everything, she emphasizes, but renewal can suddenly make it all a bit hotter. So don't dismiss that different-than-usual position right away and go along with your partner's fantasy. The chance is big that you will want more afterwards.

Relationship therapist Esther Perel also addresses an important point in her book. She says that it is important not to want to possess your partner's sexuality. If you give each other that freedom, then according to her, your sex life will remain interesting forever. In her practice, these are in any case the people who are least tempted to cheat.

Source: Huffpost