3 reasons to masturbate together
A portion of solo sex or a hefty dose selflove, however you want to call it: masturbating is hot. And let's be honest: no one knows better than you what you really enjoy. Want to try something different with your partner between the sheets and is the usual routine of foreplay getting a bit stale? Try masturbating together. Bet this will turn into a steamy wrestling match? It might sound a bit exciting, but it can be a significant boost for your sex life. LotteLust has listed the benefits for you.
Tension
Touching yourself in the presence of someone else is exciting, that much is clear. Watching your partner pleasure themselves can be very arousing, but imagine for a moment that your lover is the one watching while you bring yourself to a climax. The air will undoubtedly crackle between you, and it will be quite an art not to touch each other. It can also be educational. If you pay attention to what your partner does with themselves, you might discover new tricks to pamper the other.
Intimate
Besides the fact that this can be very exciting, it is of course also very intimate to expose yourself in this way. Perhaps even a bit vulnerable. A nice solo session is usually something we do alone, without anyone seeing or knowing about it. The chance is also great that during a solo session you think of nothing: you don't wonder how you look, you forget your shopping list, and you let go completely. Sharing this intimate moment with your partner is some serious bonding. It will only strengthen your trust and make the sex even better.
You can last longer
By masturbating, you can essentially ‘train’ yourself to last longer. Especially when a man has just climaxed, his orgasm during the next round will take longer to arrive. So let him enjoy himself, watch how he plays with himself. Focus on his actions and see how he moves. No worries if he isn't ready for the next climax right away. As soon as you start playing with yourself, the tension will be built up again in no time. Bet you will then have an extra long sex session ahead?
