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Do you poop where your partner is?

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Finding the balance between being comfortable with your partner and being sexy for your partner is an important aspect of a healthy and satisfying relationship. It is normal for partners to feel at ease with each other and to be themselves, but at the same time, you may want to keep some things private.

Balance between comfort and sexiness

A good relationship is based on finding the right balance between being comfortable with your partner and being sexy for yourself and your partner. The feeling of comfort and trust is essential to fully open up in a relationship. At the same time, you also want to maintain the attraction and passion that initially drew you to each other. Here are some insights to find this balance. Lottelust gives you tips for the perfect balance.

Tip 1: Embrace your authenticity
It is important to be yourself in a relationship and to feel comfortable with your partner. Be honest about your emotions, experiences, and thoughts. If you can be yourself and feel accepted as you are, this will strengthen the connection in your relationship.

Tip 2: Respect each other's privacy
While open communication is crucial in a relationship, it does not mean you have to share everything about yourself. Everyone has the right to privacy, and it is perfectly fine to keep certain things to yourself. It is essential that you feel comfortable deciding what you do and do not want to share. If you prefer to poop with the tap on, the music loud, and the door locked so your partner doesn't hear a splash, then that is your right.

Tip 3: Intimacy and sexuality
In a relationship, it is very important to work together to keep things a little spicy. Of course, you can chill on the couch in your sweatpants, but do make an effort to take care of yourself. For example, plan date nights where you both dress up and make sure you are freshly showered and have brushed your teeth when you get into bed together. Read more tips here from LotteLust to keep it exciting in a long relationship.

Tip 4: Communication is key
Talk openly with your partner about your needs and expectations regarding comfort and sexuality. It could very well be that you both have different views on this. If you find it normal to trim your toenails while the other is present but your lover is disgusted by that, it is good to know that about each other.

Finding the right balance between being comfortable with your partner and being sexy for your partner is a process. Remember that every relationship is unique and that you need to work together to discover what works best for both of you. Try to explore together what works best for you and enjoy a nice relationship.

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