This is the fetish that is currently going viral on TikTok

TikTok is not always so innocent, although I wouldn't think that quickly; my entire For You page is genuinely filled with videos of cats, dogs, food, Taylor Swift, and here and there some Harry Styles. But there is also another side to TikTok, namely the side full of sex tips (for example, this position where you as a woman would finish in five minutes) or why you should stimulate the lower abdomen during sex.

But this time it's not a sex position going viral, but a fetish. Oh yes: TikTok has now also dived into the fetish corner. I kind of expected that, because I see more and more dubious lives passing by. I am all for breaking taboos that still hang over fetishes, but I'm not entirely sure if TikTok is the right platform for that...

Anyway, everyone is totally into the ‘free use’ fetish that is currently going viral. A fetish that wasn't exactly popular in the past, but has made a real ‘comeback’ in recent years. What does it entail? The idea that you can be ‘used’ by your partner anywhere and anytime. It is of course important that it all goes with consent; a kink like free use is also important to discuss with your partner.

Once that is agreed upon, the partner is free to demand or initiate sex from the other whenever they want. And that can be during a dinner, but also when the other is sleeping. Basically, this is a kind of power play, a role play, a sub-dom relationship — however you want to call it. You give your partner all the power and you get a kick out of that.

Or, as TikTokers also call it: open 24/7. Meanwhile, the free use videos are being viewed millions of times and people are discovering en masse that they are by no means the only ones who find this exciting. It's nice that a platform can take away some shame again.

@notchouffevon So hot #freeuse #viral #trend #k1nkcommuntiy #relatable ♬ WHAT – Zander Joestar

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