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Dating without a timeline is hot in 2024

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I can already hear you thinking: here she is again with her dating trends. Does it never stop? The answer to that question is probably: no, it never stops. Still, I see that mainly as a good sign, as the trends seem to be getting a bit more pleasant. Like this new trend: dating without a timeline. This is because more and more women, about 72 percent, are no longer looking for a relationship that ends in marriage. They are more likely to seek someone with whom they feel a deep connection and do not focus too much on traditional milestones like engagement and marriage. It sounds calm and wonderfully relaxed, but what are we actually looking for in 2024?

Physical intimacy 
Thank god we haven't pushed this off the table yet. Physical intimacy is incredibly important, and there are many mini milestones that you can celebrate in my opinion: the first time you accidentally touch his or her leg and feel that wave of excitement shoot through your stomach, the first hug, the first kiss, the first time having sex... You get it, right? Plenty to look forward to. Of course, all these things become a lot less exciting as your relationship progresses, but comfort when it comes to physical intimacy is just as important. Talk to each other about the things you are curious about and be open to the form of physical intimacy that your partner needs. That is truly a sign of a good match.

Emotional intimacy
Yes, that one thing that more than half of your dates absolutely do not achieve. And I somewhat understand it: emotional intimacy is just plain scary and takes time. The safer we feel in a relationship, the greater the chance that we take risks regarding emotional connection. The moment you dare to let someone in is also a milestone that is just as important as taking a traditional step in your relationship.

Shared dreams
Dreaming together is staying together. Okay, that might be a bit of an oversimplification, but dreaming together about beautiful trips, a new house, or other things in the future is something that can make both of you very happy. Additionally, this can also strengthen your relationship. By supporting each other in achieving diplomas, saving money for a house, or starting a business, you can be part of each other's dreams and form an increasingly stronger bond that doesn't require a ring.

Source: Psychology Today