Why biting during sex feels so good

There are so many different things to try when you notice that you both need something new and a bit of variety in bed. It doesn't mean you have to memorize the entire Kamasutra manual and try all the most impossible positions right away. It can be in very small actions. For example, many people enjoy biting each other during sex.

Does this sound strange? You might need to get used to it. But it actually makes sense that this is usually experienced as pleasurable. It not only provides an exciting feeling due to the variety and the new element, but it also makes the sex feel much more intense. It's not just the surprise effect, but especially what follows. The receptors in your skin respond strongly to the impulse of biting, which stimulates the production of dopamine. This means that instead of pain, at some point you end up in a kind of high. And because of that high, you will experience an orgasm even more intensely.

You can even see it in animals: when they feel comfortable with another animal, they bite each other. They don't do this just with any animal, not even all animals of the same species. For animals, biting each other is an intimate act, and actually, it's not very different for humans. You need to trust each other if you're going to try this form of light BDSM. You need to be sure that you both enjoy it and that you won't go too far with each other.

That's why it's important to discuss boundaries. For example, you can better say clearly that you really enjoy biting, but not in places where it can be clearly seen, like on your neck or cheek. And how hard you can bite is also important. You probably don't want to have teeth marks in your shoulder to the point of bleeding, but you also don't want it to feel like a normal kiss, of course. It's a small change that makes it just a bit of a rougher sex session, and maybe that's even the starting signal for you to dare to experiment a bit more in the direction of BDSM. Who knows, you might discover that you actually enjoy being dominated in bed, while you are quite feminist on the street, for example. Let yourself be surprised.