Who is Harry Jowsey, the notorious Netflix fuckboy who suddenly wants to get married?

Yes, for all quality TV you have to come to me. Delicious. And of course, I did some research for you and came across another gem that you definitely don't want to miss. Who’s gonna Merry Harry? If you Too Hot to Handle and Perfect Match have watched (very strange, but I haven't seen it yet), there's a good chance you already know Harry Jowsey.

The now 29-year-old Australian (28 during filming) has been exactly the type of guy your friends warned you about while watching: don't get involved.  Handsome, fun, sociable but with a dating history that you could lay out on a spreadsheet.

But in this new show, Harry suddenly finds himself on the other side of the Netflix screen. Because Harry now finally wants to find a woman he wants to marry.

In fact: in the finale of Let’s Marry Harry he actually stepped into a wedding suit.

Who is Harry Jowsey?

Harry Jowsey was born on May 24, 1997, in Yeppoon, Queensland, Australia. He now lives in Los Angeles and is a reality star, podcaster, and influencer. In 2018, he participated in the New Zealand dating show Heartbreak Island, where he and Georgia Bryers ultimately became the winners. The two won a total of $100,000. Very romantic, you would think.

Well. Not really apparently.

Because right after the finale, it turned out that Harry and Georgia were already broken up. Harry was only 21 at the time. And let that set the tone for the years that would follow. Because Harry turned out to be not only good at dating on television but especially at dating a lot on television.

Okay, then came Too Hot to Handle

In 2020, Harry became one of the faces of the first Too Hot to Handle. And that’s when he really became a Netflix name.

He was paired with Francesca Farago, and the two were about the definition of a reality relationship where you as a viewer think: this could either be the love of their lives or end in a total disaster.

And... it was a bit of both.

Because here too, Harry with Francesca had an on-and-off relationship, ultimately broke up, got back together, and got engaged.

In the end, it still went wrong. The relationship definitively ended in 2020, although they got close again in 2021. Harry later described the relationship as “very toxic on both sides.”.

Harry became the Netflix fuckboy

After that, his dating CV only got longer and longer and longer.

He had a relationship with Too Hot to Handlestar Georgia Hassarati, who later also appeared in Perfect Match . The two had an on-and-off relationship and ultimately broke up for good. After that, Harry appeared in the second season of Perfect Match.

And yes, of course, it went wrong again there.

Harry started a relationship with Jessica Vestal but also kissed fellow contestant Melinda Berry in the meantime. Cuckoo.

But in Let’s Marry Harry he is not just thrown back into a dating show. Because his best friends literally have a say in who gets to stay and who has to go home.

That might just be the ultimate reality TV intervention.

From fuckboy to million-dollar empire

His fuckboy image also pays off. Especially his is called OnlyFans, and even then I realized that I really know nothing about it. And that it is indeed called a Wonderful World with a capital W. Meanwhile, that article is over half a year old, but OnlyFans has not been idle: on the contrary, it has become much, much bigger. turned out to be a goldmine. In 2022, he said that at one point he earned a few hundred thousand dollars a month with the platform and that he was one of the highest-earning men on OnlyFans at the time. Joe Joe. He even claimed to have earned $100,000 in one day.

In February of this year, an even crazier amount came in. Harry said in the podcast We Need To Talk that he had earned about $15 million in total with OnlyFans. He did add a caveat: it could have been less or more according to him.

And yet, Harry now wants to move on, although his account is still active. He said it complicated his dating life. Additionally, he also has his podcast Boyfriend Material, brand deals, and skincare company PASH.

So Harry is not just a reality star.

And then Harry suddenly wanted a wife

After all these years of reality shows, relationships, breakups, rumors, and a reputation as a sort of walking red flag, Harry now says he really wants to get married.

For Let’s Marry Harry, he was presented with twenty beautiful and fun women, all between the ages of 23 and 33. Everyone stays together in one house, including Harry. But there was one important difference from the average dating show: Harry wasn't allowed to choose entirely for himself.

His friends Amanda Kloots, Sonny Henty, and his ex Georgia Hassarati had a significant say in the matter. They had to help him determine which women were suitable for him.

But there was someone else who got involved in Harry’s love life: Alex Cooper. The woman behind Call Her Daddy is actually the executive producer of Let’s Marry Harry and a good friend of Harry. She also appears briefly in the series where Harry asks her for advice (she apparently kept a close eye on him during the filming). Harry mentioned that Cooper even had to slow him down because he was enthusiastically kissing all the!! women.

In other words: even Harry apparently doesn't fully trust Harry anymore.

And especially Georgia is an interesting choice. She knows Harry well, and she has actually dated him. She says she is one of the few people who has seen his deeper side.

Why does he suddenly want to get married?

There is now a bit more depth to be found. Because an important reason for that was the death of his father. His father passed away on December 4, 2024, and Harry has since said multiple times that the loss has changed his view on his life and future. He calls it a wake-up call and says that it has made him think differently about who he wants to be.

Harry has talked a lot about personal growth in recent years. He says that he used to strongly embrace his fuckboy image, but now he feels that this image no longer fits him. He no longer wants to be a playboy.

Harry himself says that he has been in dating shows since he was nineteen. Heartbreak Island, Too Hot to Handle, Perfect Match… he has pretty much lived his entire love life in front of cameras. According to him, it feels Let’s Marry Harry like the way to close that chapter.

Whether that also means he has stopped behaving like Harry Jowsey is another question.

Harry Jowsey is therefore not just a reality star

Harry has significantly built up his fame.

He is a podcaster, influencer, and entrepreneur and has a huge online following. On Instagram he has a modest 4.8 million followers. He also became one of the most recognizable faces from the Netflix Reality Universe. Besides Too Hot to Handle and Perfect Match he participated in Dancing with the Stars and The Amazing Race Australia.

And now his own Netflix show. Good move by Netflix. The Los Angeles Times has previously written about how Netflix consciously further develops its reality stars.

Harry is the program.

SPOILER

And who has become the woman?

And if you thought Harry would finally behave a bit in this show, well no. Because in one night he kissed no less than eleven !! of the fifteen !! women who were still left at that moment.

In the end, Harry chose Amber Mozo. I understood his choice. I found Dannelle (the second remaining candidate) to be a really sweet caring woman and she was absolutely a beautiful picture, but to be honest, I also found her quite boring.

Harry certainly did not have an obvious click with Amber right away, but as the episodes progressed, their bond grew. Especially because they found each other in their experiences with loss and grief. In the finale, he ultimately chose Amber over finalist Dannelle Davidson.

Harry got married. 

During the finale, he expressed his vows and asked Amber to marry him. He even wore his deceased father's glasses.

From Too Hot to Handle to a wedding suit. Harry's life can take strange turns.

Are Harry and Amber still together?

Yes, here the story naturally becomes fully Harry Jowsey.

Because although Harry and Amber actually had a wedding ceremony in the finale, it soon became clear that there was something more complicated going on with their marriage. Harry has since responded to reports that the wedding would be ‘fake’. According to him, the official papers have indeed been signed, but they have not yet been submitted at the request of the production to avoid prematurely revealing the outcome of the show.

Whether the marriage will ultimately be made official or whether the papers will be destroyed should become clear during the reunion on August 26 of Let’s Marry Harry this year. CAN'T WAIT !!

There is already plenty of speculation online about this. Amber posted something on Instagram that was interpreted by fans as a possible hint towards a new man in her life. However, there is currently no official confirmation that the two have split.

So, is the notorious Netflix fuckboy going to maybe become a husband.

Let’s Merry Harry is available on Netflix.com