These are the craziest fantasies of men in bed

Do you think that your sex life is perfect? Then you might want to shine a light in your partner's face and start the interrogation, because there is an important question you haven't asked: what is his craziest fantasy? It's really true: just like you sometimes daydream, that guy of yours has the craziest fantasies playing rent free in his head. This isn't about a simple ‘I want to try something other than missionary’, but things you wouldn't quickly consider, like... Yes, for that you need to read further. These are the craziest fantasies of men and how you can execute them to the deepest perfection.

1. Being dominated

Now this one isn't so crazy, but it's a calm start. Sometimes it seems like men always want to have control and power. Most of the time that's true, to be honest. They thrive on the “I'm the boss and I need to teach you a lesson” complex, but occasionally? Then they want to be dominated just like you. Day in, day out that missionary, where he has to pull out all the tricks from the box, really starts to bore him. He wants to feel like a spider in your web. Because as a man, they usually have to show initiative, they often don't get the chance to feel overpowered. They actually just want to lie in bed while everything is done to them. Losing control is very good for them; then you can really enjoy. So put on your brave shoes and show him why he fell for you. Armed with a nice outfit and your hair down, you jump on top and take the lead. Push him onto the bed, jump on him and just go for it, girl. Those men just want to be tied up in bed and worshipped.

2. A threesome or sharing the bed with more women

Does this surprise you? I don't think so. If there's one thing men universally dream of, it's a threesome. Even if they love you a lot. This isn't about feelings, but about seeking excitement. Just purely about sex. They get turned on when they see how you are pleased by someone else. And it gives them the chance to try it with someone else without cheating. A threesome is also the chance to try something more out of your comfort zone. They might want to go for a woman who has BDSM experience, to experience this at least once. Oh, and it naturally gives them an ego boost. So think about it: are you open to a threesome? Then you better suggest it, because that will make that man very happy. It's just simple math: if the sex with you is hot, then it can only get hotter with someone extra. According to this man it feels just like being in a porn movie, and that's exactly something men secretly dream of. The only tip I can give is to just go for it. Choose someone you both feel attracted to or go for a foursome: that way everyone has fun.

3. They want to see you masturbate

If there's something hot for a man, it's seeing you masturbate. It's just like they've landed on one of those porn websites with eighty viruses saying “Samantha wants to chat with you”. They can see in real life how you lead yourself to an orgasm and that's apparently very exciting. Penetration is great, but now and then they want something more sensual. How you do this is by creating a sexy mood. Make it dark, light some candles. Play some soft music and start pleasuring yourself. Make sure to make some extra noise and you'll make that guy of yours the happiest on earth.

4. real life lesbian sex

Just take a look at your lover's search history: there's a good chance that ‘lesbian double dildo sex’ is at the top. I don't know what it is, but something in them turns on at the idea of seeing two women making love together. They would love to see this play out in real life, with you as the main character. A threesome in itself is already exciting, but seeing you with another woman? That's pure happiness. And I'm not just talking about kissing, but the whole shebang with strap-ons and moans. They might not say it quickly, but they actually want this. If you want to nail this, you don't have to do much. The most important thing is that you find a woman you want to do this with, because otherwise, there's no fun for you to be had. Get the sex toys in the house and go for it. What you do then doesn't really matter. He's going to love it anyway.

5. a remote vibrator

This belongs in the ‘I kick on sex in public’ category. Instead of searching the bushes together (which many men already dream of, by the way), this is a game you can play in any public space. During a dinner, at the office, in the library, in the Uber – wherever you are, you can take a vibrating egg or something similar with you. This gives him control over how and where you get an orgasm. You insert such an egg and he will determine via the remote control when it turns on. So you're not even at dessert yet at a restaurant when he suddenly turns that egg on. And yes... then you have to try to keep quiet without making a sound. That's exactly what he's hoping for and who knows, he might get so turned on that you both run into the restrooms for a moment.

6. roleplay

A classic, yes, but a truly sought-after classic. Which man doesn't dream of a sexy nurse giving him a hospital visit? Or Catwoman in a short leather outfit telling him as Batman how naughty he's been? Exactly. By dressing up in a costume, you become someone else for a moment. That gives him the feeling that more women want to overpower him. His ego goes up, just like his best friend down there, and that gives him intense desire. How you approach this varies by role. Try to delve into what he finds interesting: maybe he loves Star Wars? Then you can dress up as Princess Leia. Or is he a real sportsman and you dress up as a cheerleader. Make it as crazy as you want and come up with a story. That's the key to making roleplay succeed.

So: do you want to try something new? Then you can definitely give these men's fantasies a chance.