Love & Sex

Dit is volgens mannen het beste standje

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In the wide world of acrobatic tricks and the craziest sex positions, there is one that always stands out for men. Not the classic missionary or cowgirl from the Wild West, but doggystyle. Yep. From research by Easytoys it appears that 48 percent of men love ‘doing it doggy style’. Why is that? Let me tell you. This way you have some inspiration for tonight.

Why men love doggystyle en masse

Honestly? It has a lot to do with control and dominance. By standing from behind, the man has complete control: how hard everything goes, what the pace is, whether you go very deep or just stay on the surface. Everything is up to him. Although most men would never just overpower someone without consent (we hope), this position gives the man the feeling that he ‘can do what he wants’. That primal dominance – because let's be honest, this position evokes those instincts in you – is very exciting for them. The other person is lying in front of them and can't do much except let it happen. The man can look at the beautiful body in front of him, oversee the situation, and decide for himself whether he just wants to penetrate or also wants to stroke the person in front of him with his hands and maybe stimulate further.

In addition, it really feels different than other positions. Because there is no weight on him, all the feeling is purely in the penis. There is no need to make an effort to hold someone up or balance yourself; you sit comfortably and can easily get started. According to men, this ensures that they can achieve an orgasm more easily and pleasantly.

How to get the most out of doggy style

Although men love this position, it is certainly not the favorite among women. But yes, you also want to do something nice for your guy. You can definitely make this position a bit nicer for yourself, trust me. You can move your hips more so that he goes deeper and it feels better. Let that man hold you tightly: it doesn't have to be boring. He can grab your breasts or even stimulate your clitoris during the act.

Oh, and do you know what the best thing about doggystyle is? It doesn't have to be in bed. You can do this position almost anywhere where one can bend forward. Lean against the counter, jump on the couch, against the dryer, and yes: also in the backseat of your car. This can happen anywhere, and that makes it so exciting.

Believe me: this position is really fun. For you and that man. And you score points if you want to try this. So it’s definitely worth a try.