A threesome with AI? That's the new sex trend of the moment

Did you think AI was only useful for planning your vacation route and giving your dating profile a boost? Then you clearly haven't seen what couples are up to with artificial intelligence these days. They actually use it as a third party in their sex life. Yes, you heard that right: they have a threesome with a robot. Not a literal sex robot, but a virtual lover who does and says exactly what you want. It sounds pretty insane, but maybe this is the new way to bring some spice into your relationship.

First of all: how do you have a threesome with AI?

You don't have to pull a lifelike robot out of your closet, thankfully. In this digital circus, couples use an AI chatbot, a virtual partner, or a self-created AI character for their threesome. The AI then comes up with texts as if it were really a man you found on a swingers platform or something similar. By generating a voice, images, and sometimes even a digital environment based on your wishes, it tailors everything to your fantasy.

Actually, this gives a bit of the same effect as watching porn or listening to a sexy audiobook: sounds can create a lot of excitement. But this is really next level, because now you can create a character yourself. You decide how dominant or romantic someone is.

Why couples choose a digital threesome

For many people, a threesome is high on their fantasy list, but actually taking the step to do it? That's quite a leap. Because yes: who are you going to find as a third party, ask, and what if real feelings come into play? You don't want to find out that your partner actually likes that red-haired, passionate woman more than you. This digital threesome eliminates that risk and fear. You maintain control over how far you want to go, without anyone else being able to influence that.

Moreover, a chatbot can bring a lot of unexpected fantasies to light, without you having to worry about an old acquaintance getting to know you from a whole different side. No one will know your secrets, because this person is digital and not real. An AI partner can even bring you closer together.

But, is a threesome with an AI bot not cheating?

Well, that varies from person to person. Some see it as watching porn, but for others, it can feel much more intimate and personal. Especially when one of the partners secretly talks for hours with your virtual lover. If the conversations shift from sex to emotional matters like work stress and their family history? Then it really crosses the line of cheating. Because there are indeed people who fall in love with an AI robot, no matter how crazy that sounds. You can prevent these Blade Runner-like scenarios by continuing to communicate well. Discover what you find exciting, but don't make it a fixed Friday night thing.

Is AI really the perfect third person in a threesome?

Perfect might be a strong word, but it can be a first step towards a real threesome. A chatbot obviously has no real feelings. And I haven't even mentioned the fact that you can't actually touch this character. This experiment is more about discovering whether you're up for a real threesome or just want to keep it to a digital outing once a month. Maybe it turns out to be a disappointment and you're already jealous of a person who doesn't even exist? Or you find out that it's actually very nice to have the feeling of a threesome without an awkward taxi ride home or a weird encounter in the supermarket with your new flame.

Using AI for a threesome is therefore possible. It might be a bit, eh, controversial. But trying it can't hurt. Do you dare to take the plunge?