7 THINGS YOU MUST NOT FORGET WHEN GETTING MARRIED
You would think that planning a wedding happens from a huge pink cloud. Because that's how it should be, right? Unfortunately, that pre-wedding fun often ends in a big disaster because: stressful. To avoid flying into each other's hair (it happens, really), there are a number of tips and tricks you can apply to minimize the damage. Because why save those butterflies for the big day when you can make the journey there one big party?
1. Budgeting
Setting a budget is unfortunately a very important part of your prep time. It's hard to talk about money, especially when it comes to your own money. It is wise to be open and honest about your budget from the start so you can determine your venue and know how many guests you can invite. Don't save it until the last moment, because then the damage is often already done. Once you have that structure clear, things will start rolling on their own.
2. Set priorities
Aside from your budget, this is one of the most important things you need to think carefully about: making a must-have list. What do you definitely want to do or have on your big day, and what is less important to you? If food, photography, and a good band are your priorities, put those at the top of your list and plan your wedding around them. It may mean that you limit your guest count because you find your venue or filling more important than the choice of who is present at your wedding.
3. Create a guest list
Yes, a wedding is about you as lovebirds. But your guests absolutely come in second place. There are a few things you need to consider when making a guest list. How many people do you want to invite? Are you going to work with different ‘shifts’? Then it is important to choose a wedding date that is not too close to holidays if you want to ensure a good RSVP. If you are getting married at an exclusive venue, make sure your guests have a choice of different accommodations to stay so you don't burden your loved ones with excessive costs.
4. Use an online planner
Nowadays, you can keep everything online by creating a special website with all the ins and outs about your big day. Attach an app to it and you're all set. Through the app, you can keep your guests informed about your preparations and the schedule on the day itself. One click of a button and everyone is informed.
5. Keep it fun
To be honest: such a wedding day flies by and this is also the reason why you should enjoy it from the moment of the proposal. It's okay to work through checklists, but don't be afraid to deviate from them. This not only works very inspiringly, it also keeps it fun and prevents stress.
6. Make it personal
In a world where Pinterest makes almost every wedding the same, it is often difficult to remain personal. And uh, I'm just as guilty of this myself. Not that I'm busy with wedding planning, let alone that I even have a fiancé, haha. But I do have a Pinterest wall and it's almost bursting at the seams with all the beautiful pictures. Still, it's important to step back from that sometimes. Go back to the beginning of your love or your first vacation. Serve food inspired by your first date. Maybe there are still written notes from your early weeks. Use them. That's the most fun, right?
7. Wedding planner
If there is enough budget, I can only recommend hiring a wedding planner for assistance. And I can know, because I was one myself once. Even if it's just the journey there. Too expensive? Then make sure to ask a good friend, sister, or sister-in-law for help. If you're a control freak, that can be very difficult, but remember that you really can't think of everything yourself. By asking for help, you keep the journey to your big day enjoyable. And that's very important!
