This is the real reason why men are so fond of
this ‘naughty position’
Look, when it comes to desires in the bedroom, both men and women have their preferences. Think of reverse cowgirls, pretzel dips, and standing ovations. Yes, those are positions for between, under, and on the sheets, girls.
But there is always a boss above the boss – so too in the wonderful world of sexual poses. A lot of men prefer the well-known ‘doggy style’ and before you know it, you get tossed around and grabbed. But according to experts, there is a simple reason for that. And no, it's not just because he finds it the most pleasurable in terms of stimulation. Although he probably also thinks it's a good position to reach the necessary peaks, there is more. It turns out that he labels this as a favorite because it allows him to make fewer mistakes.
Wait a minute. It has to do with UNCERTAINTY. In the naughty ‘doggy’ way, you can't see his face. Plus: he can't see yours. And moreover, he can't mess it up too quickly in terms of moves. After all: you are in a certain position where you are not twisted around each other and have to move your hips awkwardly. No, no, this position is much easier. Just go for it and done. No glimpse of weird faces needed. You don't have to look at each other and he obviously can't really ‘miss’ with his little guy. Your bodies can't awkwardly bump into each other, which saves a lot of awkward situations. Plus: size XS or size L: as a woman, you notice less difference between the two than when you are lying on your back, for example.
And just the fact that this naughty position (read: he grabs those buttocks and breasts unrestrained) is so practical makes it a popular pose. Of course, he also enjoys seeing your hair flutter in the air, but the combination with pure comfort is what really does it for him. Something about the easy way, yes. And this while there is so much choice. Man, man, man... They are really simpler than we thought.
But... Guilty girls, pay attention. Do you want to make him a bit of a real, confident guy? Luckily, as the flexible doggies we are, we can always turn our heads and look him in the eye if we want to, right. During his favorite position, yes. Ooh, ah, here I am. And then take a look at his little gentleman too. A bit of teasing in bed – it's nice to do that from time to time. Sorry not sorry, guys.
Fortunately, you can settle down after 4 bed partners. That saves again.
FACTS
– In 2016, doggy style was the most popular position: 35% of the lustful couples chose this position.
– Don't know what to do with size XXXL in bed?
-In the Netherlands, we still most often choose the missionary position on average. A bit of starfish people, so yes. Well, that's allowed sometimes. We're busy enough. YAY.
Written by: Tessa Heinhuis
source image: Pinterest
