Love & Sex

Why in 2026 lubricant is really your best friend

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There was a time, long, long ago, when lubricant didn't exactly have the best image. That grease was something only ‘old people’ used to get things going again. It was hidden in the supermarket, somewhere at the bottom, so that no one saw you putting that box in your shopping cart. But, dear, dear people, we are already in 2026. It has cost humanity a lot of inventions and evolutions to get to this point. Lubricant is as we speak really no longer a tool that you only use because it's necessary. Whether you're single or ready to mingle: that gel is fantastic and I'm going to tell you exactly why.

‘Natural sex’ is a myth

Do you still tell yourself that good sex should be effortless? That your body should just know on command when you're in the mood and you can keep going for four hours? That's really outdated nonsense. Your body doesn't have an on-off switch. There are so many things that can cause you or your partner to have trouble in bed. For example, that your laundry is piling up and you have stress at work. Or that you have sleepless nights because of a small child. Even your hormones can have an influence. So there's really no shame if you or your partner need lubricant to get it on. No matter how small the discomfort, that's exactly what ruins the mood. A little irritation here, some friction there: if it doesn't go smoothly, you can't enjoy it either. So it's really not a big deal if you need a little help with that.

Lubricant is always an upgrade

The fact that you start dripping like a waterfall at the sight of your flame doesn't mean that lubricant can't be an addition to your sex life. You should see that stuff as part of a great experience, like soft sheets and a good playlist. Lubricant is not just something that makes movements easier. It can become a game. Just like some people use whipped cream in the bedroom, you can play with lubricant. Let a little cold drip on your partner's back to get them excited. Or stroke sensitive body parts with extra cold fingers (thanks to the lubricant, of course). All of this can contribute to foreplay.

And to be honest: isn't it nice not to have to worry about whether there's enough lubrication down there? With lubricant, you can just go for it, even if you're already tired after half an hour but still want to fool around. The secret to really good sex is that you both feel comfortable. Lubricant ensures that you don't have to stress anymore. Say hello to relaxing and the best night you've ever had.

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Fun lubricant gives you just a little more spice

You can make an evening more exciting with sex toys, but lubricant also comes in all sorts of flavors. If there's one thing you should try this year, it's to mess around with that. For example, a tingling lubricant that gives you extra stimulation. Or a warming that makes you feel like you're Jordan Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street getting candle wax on his back. That might sound a bit weird, but it's really exciting. And if that wasn't enough, there's something else cool on the market. There's even a lubricant that increases your chances of an orgasm. Yes, seriously. By incorporating a little pepper into the gel, it stimulates blood circulation, helping you reach that climax faster.

In short: being smart is the new sexy. Why make it difficult when you can just use some lubricant? That's perfect for a quickie or a long evening where you want to try all sorts of acrobatic positions. Lubricant belongs in your nightstand, just give it a try and then we'll talk further.