Sex

Even between the sheets, things can sometimes go wrong. Men do make bed blunders and there's nothing wrong with that, because you can learn from your mistakes, right? Well, it's a matter of trying out and experimenting together in bed and sometimes just repeating what you know can't go wrong. And keep laughing with each other. And talking. That usually cuts the awkwardness in half. Alright, those dramatic bed blunders that all men recognize to some extent: 1. Finishing too quickly One of the most common mistakes is going too fast and finishing too quickly. Excitement and enthusiasm can...

Here it finally is: summer has officially begun. We have been lucky enough to enjoy radiant weather for a few weeks now, but the beginning of summer is always something worth celebrating in my opinion. Why? With the rising temperatures, we spontaneously start flirting, kissing, and having sex, and those just happen to be the things I love to write about. Are you single (or not) and noticing that the summer heat ignites your desires? Then you are not alone. Sultry summer evenings are simply perfect for flirtatious...

Roos (30) sees Cas for the first time again after that crushing night. And even though the agreement is that nothing more should happen, in practice, that turns out to be a lot harder. When I walk in, I see the corner of Cas's mouth tighten slightly. His eyes widen, as if he is afraid of me, and he turns to a friend. Is this how it’s going to be between us now? Of course, the message came the next morning, that this should never have happened. He had no regrets, but it had to stay between us. What did...

There are quite a few misunderstandings about lubricant. It is often thought that it is only for women who cannot rely on their natural moisture. But nothing could be further from the truth; lubricant can be a valuable addition in the bedroom. So let’s dive into everything you need to know about lubricant. What exactly is lubricant? Lubricant is available in tubes, pumps, jars - you name it. Additionally, it can also be oil-based, water-based, or silicone-based. It is ideal as a 'lubricant' during sex and can make the experience more enjoyable. - Silicone lubricant stays slippery for a long time, even underwater and is not...

We are becoming more open-minded when it comes to all the different forms of relationships and the various fantasies people can have in the realm of sex. You may already know a few fetishes (like the foot fetish that has been widely discussed lately), but I’m sure you didn’t know these 9 fetishes... 1. Adult babies At number 1, the most shocking fetish as far as I’m concerned. With this fetish, people enjoy sleeping in a crib, wearing diapers, and being changed, basically everything that babies experience daily. They wear baby clothes (but in XXXL) and...

In our world of self-care, it is high time to embrace the role of masturbation in our daily routines. Sexual health is essential for our well-being and therefore deserves attention. A regular masturbation routine can be a powerful tool for promoting our physical, mental, and emotional health. Why masturbation? Let’s start by understanding why masturbation is so important for self-care. First of all, it provides moments of pleasure and relaxation. Masturbation can be an effective way to reduce stress, release tension, and unwind after a busy day. Moreover, it can help improve...

At a party, Roos sees an incredibly beautiful woman standing just a bit too close to Jacques. Only she doesn't know at that moment that she is going to get to know her better than she ever dared to think. As I walk into the bar, I see Jacques already standing there. He is not alone. A blonde woman in a red dress is standing just a bit too close to him. Her hand rests on his forearm. I can already tell from a distance how he looks at her, because that’s how he normally looks at me. My breathing quickens a bit. What is going on here...

I always really thought that this kind of sentence was spoken by men. In forums. With a lot of frustration. In any case, not by me. And yet I write it. With desire. A lot of desire for sex. While my husband mainly wants to... sleep. Here we go again. And don’t get me wrong, it’s not just about fucking, but about being seen and desired. Let me just put it on the table: I want sex more often than he does. And no, that doesn’t feel empowered or spicy or “good for me”. It mainly feels confusing. And sometimes just plain awkward. This is just too...

Sexuality is not always black and white and can change over time. Whether you notice that you are attracted to a different type of person than before or that your sexual desires take shape in a different way, that is completely normal. In fact, it is a sign of personal growth. The idea that your sexual preferences are fixed is outdated. In reality, your sexual preference can change and evolve throughout your life, and that is perfectly okay. Sexuality is fluid. Sexuality is not a fixed thing, but something that can change over time. What you today...

Yes, well, an orgasm is not everything. And it’s not the most important thing in the sex game you play together. And also: a woman’s orgasm is just as important as a man’s. Sometimes it’s woman-on-woman and you don’t need this trick at all. But if you still want a man to climax, which position is handy to make that 100 percent sure? It turns out there is a position that guarantees success in the bedroom. Or actually, there are three positions recommended. A man would in these positions namely climax within...