Love & Sex

Why men have a fascination with anal sex

So somewhere between Monday morning coffee and lunch we wondered: what is it with men and anal? We don't quite understand the pressing need to get the dick in through the slop. Since we obviously want to start an in-depth investigation into this, I very carefully typed in the words ‘men’, ‘fascination’ and ‘anal’ on Google. And then a bit with my head half turned away waiting for the result, because it could just turn out to be spicy.

Anal ticks a few points, making men want it, even making it a bit of an aspiration. I heard via via (because really I'm not going to name names here) that there are couples where an anal number is weekly prick (haha). So need to know the details. Just to keep in mind: research shows that 43 per cent of men and 37 per cent of women have experience with anilingus. So-so.

Going forward, this is why:

  1. It seems to feel very different for men than for vaginal sex. Tighter, yes, but altogether different.
  2. Anal is a bit not done anyway and there are many women who are not immediately eager. The formula is simple: not allowed = I want it, I want it, I want it. 
  3. It gives the man more power. They say. Anal sex has everything to do with dominating. 
  4. With the abundance of anal porn, its popularity seems to be increasing quite a bit. It is therefore a big plus in the sexual portfolio. 
  5. And it's new. Every now and then, men (and women) want something new. 
  6. You have a buttock man and in anal sex, the view for the buttock man is pleasurable. 

By the way, if you look at the female anatomy, clitoral stimulation is necessary to achieve orgasm. Anal penetration won't get you anywhere near this, so it's not necessarily an addition to use the artist's entrance. However, there are SO many nerve endings around the anus that this seems to cause all kinds of sensations. It seems that you an orgasm guarantee of around 94 per cent have if you go for anal.

Porn site Pornhub continues to see growth in anal as the search term rose 120 per cent between 2009 and 2015. That's what you call a hefty spike. Well, we know that again, happy Wednesday huh.

P.S..: Not so into anal, then you have other options hear, check them out.