The 7 sexual fantasies that we all have

To kick off the day in a nice juicy way in the category ‘this is what you want to know’. Research by social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller shows that these are the winners among sexual fantasies. Maybe you can test them out during virtual coffee tomorrow, see if your colleague has one too.

1. A threesome

An extra man or extra woman is something that 89 percent of the panel has ever fantasized about. So that's almost everyone, think about that. By the way, these are the four sacred rules of a threesome.

2. BDSM

Roughly speaking (uhuh) 65 percent is not averse to a little spanking, biting, or pouring hot candle wax over each other. These are the tips for beginners. 

3. Spice up the daily routine

Taking a detour from what we normally do is very popular. Changing positions, location, or partner; as long as the sex routine gets a nice boost.

4. In public

The chance of being caught is one of the fantasies that especially women have.

5. An open relationship

Popular among men, as 79 percent fantasizes about an open relationship. By the way, women too, as 58 percent admit to having thought about it.

Carefree young woman leaning on male friend while standing against sky

6. Same sex

May I have your attention? Almost 6 out of 10 women have ever had a secret fantasy about sex with a woman. That's more than 1 in 2, yes. If you want to put it into practice: this is how you have sex with a woman. For men, it's less of a thing, as 26 percent say they have ever fantasized about the same sex.

7. Meaningful sex

Huh? Yes, really. Meaningful sex is apparently scarcer than we thought. Men and women want sex where they feel desired, appreciated, and loved. We get it.

Source: Independent.co.uk