Prove that you are dating a real man

And not a boy

First and foremost, for everyone who always associates the terms with ages: age has nothing to do with it. What matters are the actions that distinguish ’the boys’ from real men. So do you want to know if the man in your life could possibly be the real deal or if it's just a temporary thing? Here’s the proof of whether or not you are dating a real man dating :

Boys ignore uncomfortable conversations, men know how to communicate

Every relationship has its irritations and issues. There’s no way that you can always agree on everything. But those irritations need to be discussed, and real men do that.

Boys live for the day, men work on their future

You have the kind that can be found in the pub every night and further loves a nice lazy life and you have the kind that works hard on his future. Because a serious boyfriend? Then you want that second one.

Boys want to mess around, men like to invest their time in the right woman

Alright, almost everyone goes through a phase where they don’t want anything serious and just want to enjoy the single life. Nothing wrong with that, but if you are looking for something serious, it’s very easy to split the boys from the men. Men make an effort for you, boys do anything but. Read here how you know when a guy is just not that into you.

Boys give you compliments to get you into bed, men do it because they want you to be happy with yourself

Here you must take into account the fact that there is a difference between giving a compliment to get something in return and giving a compliment just to give something. And that last one, real men do that, because they don’t need anything in return. They just want you to know that you look good/are doing well/whatever.

Boys avoid the chance of rejection, men just go for it

Whether they fall flat on their face or not; real men just go for it. It doesn’t mean they like rejection, but nothing ventured is nothing gained.

Boys don’t set priorities, men make sure you are a priority

Perhaps the most important point to find out if someone really likes you: he makes time for you. No matter how busy his life is, he puts in the time to see you.

Did you accidentally find out that the boy or man you are dating is not ’the one’? This is how you dump him.

Source: The Minds Journal